A Self-Made Man by Susan De Bartoli

Anyone who follows Il Volo certainly knows their manager, Michele Torpedine.  At concerts we see a patch of grey hair and we all say, “There’s Michele.” For those new fans who don’t know Michele, get ready to follow a young boy to the great stages of the world and onward to the White House.
But who is this man? And where did it all begin for him? This is a man who rose from poverty to become one of the most important managers in Italy. Michele Torpedine is A Self-Made Man.  If you want to find your way to stardom, you need to catch his eye. Il Volo not only caught his eye they caught his ear, and they brought Michele back to life.
“Ricomincio Dai Tre” is Michele Torpedine’s autobiography. I said this about the guys’ books and, I will say it about Michele’s book, “If you can read Italian, you need to read this book.” It was so good, I read it in one weekend. I will say a lot of the people he talks about, you probably will not know, unless you’re Italian. Having said this, it is a very good read!

Let’s start by first looking at how the guys came to know Michele.

The day the guys came together singing, “O Sole Mio” on Ti Lascio una Canzone, Michele was at the end of his career. For him it was truly over. All he had done for so many now seemed in vain. But with this vision before him, three amazing teenagers, he was able to see a new light. A light that would start the wheels rolling again. A light that would reveal truth. A truth that never before was revealed to him. A truth he searched for his whole life but would only find in his relationship with Il Volo.

What was this truth? For the answer, let’s go back to the beginning, that is the beginning for Michele. Let’s listen to what Michele has to say about his humble beginnings….
In my story, you will find pieces of true stories of artists, such as Andrea Bocelli, Il Volo, or rather, among their stories, you will find mine, that of an Apulian child emigrated to Bologna, the boy who from a studio apartment in a small white house (the Apulian houses are often white), went to the oval room of the White House.
I loved music, I still love it, the world of music, less.

I was born on 12th May 1952 in a small town in northern Puglia. I don’t remember anything about this place, because I moved to Bologna when I was 5 months old.
My father was called Salvatore, he was a tailor, he was severe, hard.
My mother’s name was Titina, I lost her when I was 27 years old. I carried her down in my arms, wrapped in a sheet, to the mortuary chamber. She was 51 years old. Hunger, misery and cancer, this was her life, she struggled like a beast, then from one day to the other she fell ill and flew away in less than a year, I still haven’t managed to forgive her for leaving me so early.
In Bologna, we came in search of work and survival, we were poor, really poor. We lived five people in one room.
At the age of 8, I started to work, with a shoemaker, straightening the nails that were extracted from the soles. At 12 I started working as a bartender, then as a waiter and bellhop.
My brother Nino, at the age of 17, assembled his first battery of drums (drum set), I, who was five years younger than him, began to follow him and learn. I began to work in the evening. I would go to the places where you can play. At the age of 14, I became part of a local orchestra.

At 16, my first dream came true, a friend of mine called me on a Sunday afternoon and tells me that he was given the task of hiring six bands to open the Jimi Hendrix concert and asked me if I wanted to take part. I accepted immediately; I was excited.
Our band is the last one to play before Hendrix enters. Bad fate because people couldn’t wait any longer, so they threw booze and popcorn at us.
Things began to improve they called me more and more often.

One evening, all together, we go to see a concert of musicians playing with Ray Charles, the place is packed, that evening Ray Charles is there too. At a certain point they tell me they don’t have a drummer and they asked me to play. My legs were shaking, I was paralyzed with fear, but then I calmed down and played.
Michele says that the battery (the drums) is his life, not women, nothing for him is as reliable as a drum set. Michele continues…
Everything goes well, time passes, I was good, but not a genius, I understood that it is better to change.

One day someone proposed that I be a road manager, that is the one who contacts the local promoters, pays the musicians, takes the money, checks that everything goes well.
I plan a series of concerts for artists like Paoli-Vanoni, a great success, things are getting better and better, from one day to the next I became a millionaire, and people began to ask for me.

I started a partnership with Zucchero Fornaciari. He is a good soul singer, nobody in Italy sings like that. Time passed and Zucchero became very successful, one day he came to me with a beautiful and sad song: “Miserere”, and he says, “this song should be sung with a tenor … let’s try to ask Pavarotti?”
Pavarotti was in America. I have to bring him a demo of the song so he can listen to it. I contact all the tenors I know but nobody wants to do a demo with Zucchero, join the lyrics, with them pop was not contemplated by the classical tenors.
By pure chance, a friend tells me that in Tuscany, in a club, in the evening, there is a blind boy who plays the piano and is very good, he also sings tenor songs, his name is Andrea Bocelli.
It was the first time I met Bocelli. No one believed in him, not even himself.
Bocelli agreed to do the demo but, he was fearful because Pavarotti would hear it. He is very good and likeable. He sings the demo in a special way. I tell him to persist with music and he replies that he has won a receptionist competition, and that music will remain his passion.
I fly to Philadelphia to give Pavarotti the demo and, he immediately tells me that he will never sing a song of light music. I asked him to at least listen to the demo and he agreed. I explained to him that the boy who sings is not a tenor but a simple boy who plays for passion and Pavarotti asks me if I’m kidding him, because for years he hasn’t heard such a beautiful voice.
I go home and call Bocelli and I incredulously propose a contract to him. Bocelli doesn’t believe it’s all true.

At first it was difficult, nobody wanted Andrea. Too risky! There were always so many bad reviews in American newspapers, but people loved him, that’s the only thing he has always counted on.
The live reaction of the people was a show in the show. Andrea was a great interpreter of emotions he knew how to take on the feelings of ordinary people. This was its added value: to be a common mortal with a divine voice.

As to women, Michele says…
Women, I love them, but I’m afraid of them.  I can’t trust the exclusive relationship with a woman.  I am not so naive as not understand that beautiful women are with me even for what I do, I am wealthy, I ride in beautiful cars and, I have some power. I never married, but I was almost married. How it ended makes me feel bad today. I was 30, she was from Bologna, beautiful and intelligent. We decided to get married.
I will only say, he cheated and, it was over! Too bad!

As with everything, Michele goes back to his mother….
My mother who I loved very much, left me early, too early, without giving me a way to show all my love for her. My mother could not share with me that little bit of success, of well-being, that I wanted to give her after so many hardships. I had everything from her, and she, she had no way to say with pride “That is my son”. I feel guilty about this.
But there is another woman who has always been important in my life, and it is my sister Liliana, a little friend, a little mother, and always with me even at work, especially in the most important moments.

I must admit that other female figures have been very important in my career. At the beginning, Cristina Gelsi, who followed me in the 16 years with Bocelli. And, now Barbara Vitali, omnipresent in all my activities, almost my alter ego, lives traveling the world to assist Il Volo.

So, let’s talk about the guys and their relationship with Michele.

In an interview with La Vita in Diretta, Michele was asked, “What has changed, Torpedine?”
I have many enemies, which will increase after this book but, I met the right people: Gianluca Ginoble, Ignazio Boschetto and Piero Barone.

Yes, as you can tell from the title of the book, when I met them and put them together as a trio, they were so young… to think that ten years (now fifteen years) have already passed! With them and with their families, good people, a relationship was born that goes far beyond the professional one.

Together we joke and laugh, then we get serious, enjoying worldwide successes: but the human side, their being real and clean, for me is an added value, which is priceless. And, especially in this environment, is a rare commodity.
So true! This is something we always say about the guys. Something we admire! Their integrity and values are priceless! We admire that they are able to remain grounded being in this environment.

Where there is gratitude, there is Il Volo! Michele continues…
It’s so hard to be told ‘thank you.’ For this reason, the boys, Gianluca, Piero and Ignazio are different: grateful, so much so that I had to tell them to stop making my name and thanking me during interviews or at the end of the concerts, everything seems prepared.
But, of course, we know it’s from the heart! That’s who Il Volo is!

Asked about whether or not Michele would “Fancy a family.” He replied….
I have no children or wife, I married music. Perhaps the ugly will come later when I turn around and find no one. But at the moment I’m fine with that!
We wonder what did Michele expect when he signed Il Volo?
Another great story started, a new story at a time when it seemed to me that there was no future for me, for my profession: a breath of oxygen in my environment.
After years of disappointment, loss of trust and gratitude, missing or denied, with Ignazio, Piero and Gianluca, Michele rediscovers the values of gratitude. Michele says….
The boys allowed me to really go back to my job.
So where did Michele begin with the boys? He started in a place where he always wanted to be.
Let’s start with trust because they trust me first of all; the administration of an entire world tour, with important figures to move on which I could take what I want if I were dishonest. But they trusted me and so did their parents, to whom, moreover, I have committed myself to teaching everything, the mechanisms, the things that move, the figures, the relationships. All.

So how does Michele describe this trust?

If I had to define the story of Il Volo with a dominant feeling, I would call it, Un Grande Amore – A Great Love!
Many have arrogated the merit of the success of the three boys, which is certainly the result of great teamwork, but it is above all the result of intelligence, humility and generosity of the three families who have not only never hindered my work as manager, but were supportive in the best way: Ercole and Lenora Ginoble parents of Gianluca, Vito and Caterina Boschetto father and mother of Ignazio, and Gaetano and Eleonora Barone who gave life to Piero.
To sum up his life, Michele says….
Many disappointments, mainly human and partly, even professional.
At some point, I found myself feeling more disappointed than ever with music, with the environment I mean. There was never gratitude around me. I found myself tired, eager for simplicity, for pure things. The horizon seems closed to me. One night I was at home, sitting on the couch, and three boys, fourteen, fifteen, appear on TV. Of course, they are good, and if I tried to really put them together? A trio, here’s what I could do: Il Volo.
I think those three determined boys saved me from depression and from the desire to leave everything. Three teenagers, yes, but already great, in all respects. Already great since I first saw them: Piero, Ignazio and Gianluca. 

How do the guys feel about Michele?
Let me answer that by going back a few years when Michele was involved in a lawsuit and the guys were asked about their relationship with Michele over the last ten years. The guys answered with this message about Michele.
We know you well. You have been by our side for more than 10 years. You have defended us from everyone, you have fought for us, you have taught us so much and above all you love us. You always made us understand who we should trust and who preferred to use us for their own interests and for their own personal glory. We are proud to have chosen you and to have renewed our trust, for 10 years, day after day. This is truth that no sentence can hinder. For the rest, just have patience: in the end the truth always comes. In life and in courts.
In concluding Michele said….
I started from a studio apartment in a small white house and passed to the Oval Room of the White House, received by Clinton and Bush. Who knows Ricomincio Dai Tre – I Start Again from Three may become a film!
Maybe it’s time for me to go back to my old career and write the screenplay!
Well Michele maybe I should go back to my old career, and we can write that screenplay together!!!

What did we learn from this story? We learned Michele is a very sensitive man. A determined man! A Self-Made Man!
So, you might ask, why this story this week? Last week I wrote about Fifteen Years of a Lifetime. And for me it seemed appropriate to talk about the man who introduced the world to Il Volo and stands alongside them every day! 
The man who looked up at a TV screen, saw three teenagers on the stage of Ti Lascio una canzone and even before he heard them sing, knew he had found his new beginning! 
The wheels that turned in Michele’s head that night can only be described as La Forza del Destino (the force of destiny)! The continuation of the same force that was leading Piero, Ignazio and Gianluca! The force that led them to the stage of Ti Lascio una canzone, at the same moment in time!
By the next morning, Michele had already put all the pieces together to lead them down the road to Stardom!
That is the genius of Michele Torpedine!
A phenomenal career for Il Volo and a new life for Michele!

God’s plan completed!

Next week we bring all the stories together to begin the celebration of the fifteen years together.

See you in Milan on Sunday!

For your listening pleasure – Il Volo Takes Flight – Live From the Detroit Opera House 2011

 

Join me next week as I go back Through the Fields of My Mind and open the door to a new adventure!
If you would like to share a story with me, please email:  susan.flightcrew@yahoo.com
To read more Il Volo stories visit us at www.ilvoloflightcrw.com
Excerpts of this story are from “Ricomincio Dai Tre” by Michele Torpedine. Interviews with La Vita in Diretta, Sabato Italiano, ilsussidiario.it and TV Zoom
 Credit to owners of all photos.

22 thoughts on “A Self-Made Man by Susan De Bartoli”

  1. Merci Susan encore une tres belle histoire ! J’attends toujours avec impatience vos histoires a Daniela et a toi ! Toujours régalée jamais déçue !

  2. Susan, you are a saint for giving us all this background information. We love reading anything about the history and how this miracle happened. Thank you so much.

    1. Hi Susan please email me I was scammed on a profile
      Live in California. Michele torpedine email is in correct.

  3. Auch ich warte sehnsüchtig auf eure Briefe und lese sie mit viel Interesse. Ich bin ja noch ein ganz neuer Fan und weiß Vieles noch nicht.
    Danke vielmals. Michele ist so alt wie ich. Ich finde es interessant zu sehen, was Gleichaltrige aus ihrem Leben gemacht haben. Nochmals danke dafür.

  4. Susan, dziękuję za ten artykuł. Bardzo pouczający, dający możliwości poznania tak wspaniałego człowieka jakim jest Michele Torpedine. Jego historii, przeżyć (czasami bardzo trudnych). Dojścia po trudach ciężkiej pracy, zaufania, wrażliwości i miłości – do wielkiego sukcesu. Podziwiam bardzo Michele. Jest dla Naszej kochanej trójki, drugim ojcem, na którym zawsze mogą polegać. Szkoda tylko, że nie ma tłumaczenia tej książki na język polski. Z wielką przyjemnością przeczytałabym. Jeszcze raz dziękuję i serdecznie pozdrawiam

  5. Sr. Torpedine has guided “the boys” well and it is obvious that there is mutual love and respect between him and Il Volo. I look forward to meeting them all one day when they tour in the U.S. Thank you for sharing his story. I know some about the music industry here in the States and it seems to me Michele was in the right place at the right time and continues to be. Bravo, Michele.

  6. Hi Susan, this was such an informative and interesting post about Michele Torpedine and our guys! For Mr. Torpedine finding ILVOLO at a time in his life where almost gave up was a miracle for him and for us! The leadership he has given our boys will stay with them their entire lives and with their families, a true blessing for them, for him and for us! Long may he live!!
    With my gratitude and affection for you,
    Carol 💖💖💖🎶🎵🎼🎤🕊️🩷🤗😘🙏🏻

    1. To nie przypadek , Oni wszyscy są wyjątkowi i mają dar dawania siły i nadziei tam gdzie jej brakuje 😇😇😇🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹

  7. Dear Susan – thank you for this wonderful insight into Michele Torpedine’s life – he certainly is a very extraordinary & gifted man – I love his sensitivity & intellect – but especially his humbleness – he sincerely loves Piero – Ignazio & Gianluca profoundly & I can see he ranks honesty – integrity & clean living among his priorities – this man is amazing & the boys I’m sure know how fortunate they are to have this beautiful man to take care of them in every way – Michele will know full well the legacy IL Volo will impress on this World for all the reasons he talks about – love your brilliant editorial & thoroughly enjoyed reading it – much love to you Susan & have a great week.

  8. Hey Suzan, het was weer een mooi en waar verhaal, ik kijk er altijd naar uit wat je over Il volo schrijft, hun muziek staat op van s’morgens en ook in de auto, ik heb al 3 live concerten gezien van il volo en het versterkt mijn liefde en respect voor het hele team, ik hou van Piero, Ignazio, en Gianluca en ik hoop ze nog eens live te kunnen zien, mijn respect ook voor U dankjewel
    Veel groetjes en tot later vanuit België.
    (Ps. Ik vertaal alles met Google translate ik zou zo graag Italiaans verstaan maar door de muziek van de boys begint het te gaan )

  9. Dear Susan,
    First of all thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥️
    Your articles are amazing and so well written providing me and other readers in Quebec with information about the most talented young men, their families and Michel Torpedine. 🇨🇦🥰♥️
    I bought Senor Torpedine autobiography and will read it little by little until my Italian improves.
    I believe 3 amazing voices might have been lost forever if Senor Torpedine didn’t have the intuition to get them under his wings. Not only to provide artistic guidance, but to accompany teenagers into stratospheric heights vocally, artistically and personally. 💕
    Thank you again for all you do for us, so far away 🙏😘
    Alexandra Kantardjieff

  10. Susan, we (Il Volovers) are such a diverse group, I wish I had an International dictionary so I could translate each letter of kudos to you for your column. 😊😊 As it is, I agree with those I can understand and even with those I can’t.

    The bottom line is — we all love Il Volo and thank Heaven for Michele Torpedine for his experience and guidance to our young men. The women of the world have lost a lovely, warm, intelligent man but we have all gained by having him in the lives of Gianluca, Igna and Piero! Hugs, Dol.

  11. Thank you Susan for the look into Michele start ,he was very moved by his mother dying but now he has done so much in his life to our three amazing guys together,they have great faith and love for him ,hope they have a brilliant tour [i think it is too long a tour ]but they keep safe regards

  12. Susan, in one word GREAT Story. They came together at the right time in their lifes. Love them a lot.

  13. Thank you, Susan. Your written words fill our souls. I love your stories. Don’t forget about a Barbara story one day. It would be interesting to get to know her background and her relationship with the guys, peppered with funny stories from their “auntie.” Barbara us a lucky woman to watch them grow up and the il Volo guys are lucky to have her. I bet they might have “pranked” her a few times. I saw when she accompanied them to outings, such a wedding. That’s a great relationship. May they all continue to be together, and you with then, writing about what they are doing. Thank you.

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